Wednesday, April 6, 2011
Saturday, February 5, 2011
DOSTI(FRIENDSHIP) SONG BY NAZIA HASSAN &ZOHAIB HASSAN
Friend r always better than love bcoz luv says "i will give u every thing u need" ......but a frnd says "when i'm there, u would not need anything"......
Dosti...Nazia Hassan and Zoheb Hassan...video album......out standing...
NAZIA HASAN....Although she is not among us but she will remain in our hearts..
We Miss you nazia .....
Nazia Hassan (نازیہ حسن) (April 3, 1965 August 13, 2000) was an iconic Pakistani pop singer. Her song "Aap Jaisa Koi" from the film Qurbani made her a legend and pop icon in Pakistan and all of South Asia in the 80s where she is admired and loved even today, several years after her death.
"The Queen of pop singing"
"Sweetheart of Pakistan"
These are a few titles associated with Nazia Hassan.
She was the most influential and popular female singer and probably the only real pop singer of 80's and 90's in both India and Pakistan.
Dosti...Nazia Hassan and Zoheb Hassan...video album......out standing...
NAZIA HASAN....Although she is not among us but she will remain in our hearts..
We Miss you nazia .....
Nazia Hassan (نازیہ حسن) (April 3, 1965 August 13, 2000) was an iconic Pakistani pop singer. Her song "Aap Jaisa Koi" from the film Qurbani made her a legend and pop icon in Pakistan and all of South Asia in the 80s where she is admired and loved even today, several years after her death.
"The Queen of pop singing"
"Sweetheart of Pakistan"
These are a few titles associated with Nazia Hassan.
She was the most influential and popular female singer and probably the only real pop singer of 80's and 90's in both India and Pakistan.
Friday, January 28, 2011
TRUE FRIENDS ARE NOT DREAM CRUSHERS
Our friendships not only tell a lot about who we are - they make us who we are. You will know a friendship is true when it brings out the best in you. Take a look at your friendships. Do they bring out the best in you? That might seem like a silly question. We all tend to think, "Of course they bring out the best in me. I wouldn't be friends with them otherwise."
But stop and think why you are friends. Here are a few common reasons why people become friends:
- Common background
- Common current situation- parenting, home renovations, or some other major life circumstance.
- Common interest, such as cards, bowling, hunting, etc.
- Somebody you spend time with anyway, such as a colleague, sibling, etc.
- Somebody you see frequently anyway, such as a neighbor, store clerk, etc.
These are just a few reasons people choose friends. It is the easy, natural way, but it is not always in our best interest. Sure, we should always want to get along with colleagues, neighbors, siblings, and anybody else.
But we should choose our friends, the people we open up to, very carefully. For instance, even a sibling can bring you down, pooh-pooh your dreams and load you up with negativity. "Ha! You think you can teach? What do you know about teaching?"
Even well-meaning friends can be dream-slashers. "Oh, do you really think you should go into business for yourself? I mean, what about security?"
On the other hand, some friends have a way of building up your dreams. "Go for it! You could really do well. And at worst, you'll at least have given it your best shot!"
Friends will often lend a hand. "Gee, I don't know much about fitness, but is there any way I can help you reach your goal?" Dream-slashers usually don't. "Hey, if you insist on pursuing this crazy scheme, leave me out of it."
A true friendship should:
* Encourage you to live your dream.
* Support you toward your goals.
* Sympathize for your losses and help you find a silver lining.
* Build your self-esteem.
* Support you toward your goals.
* Sympathize for your losses and help you find a silver lining.
* Build your self-esteem.
If happiness and life-satisfaction are your goals, your friends should be chosen on the basis of how well they can accomplish those four goals.
Happiness is a personal choice that comes from within. But it sure doesn't hurt to have supportive friendships that help us achieve our goals.
16 WAYS TO SHOW YOU ARE A TRUE FRIEND
16 WAYS TO SHOW YOU ARE A TRUE FRIEND
Are you a true Friend? This is a question that I’ve asked myself many times over the years about myself. I've heard all my life that when we come down to the end of life's journey, if we have one really good friend, then we can count ourselves lucky.
We always seem to have people that have given lip service to being a friend. But many times, I have been convinced that they are not. I have found that most people who have masqueraded as friends have shown their true colors when the chips were down. I hear people tell me all the time, I have lots of friends. If you really believe that, then read the 16 suggestions listed below and see how many of these suggestions you would agree that a friend would do for you or vice versa.
Think about it this way. We are all basically selfish individuals. We usually are interested in our own self-gratification. That means our world is about me,me,me. We really don't want to do things for other people, but we sure do expect them to do things for us.
I want to be the type of friend that Christ would want me to be. He is my model. I believe the suggestions below would please him.
1) Someone who is always ready to listen without being judgmental
2) A person that can be called day or night and they respond
3) When in need of monetary assistance, they show up
4) A person that can offer a viewpoint opposing to mine in kindness and love
5) They will not desert you when the marriage is on the skids, when you are experiencing a death of someone close, a sickness calls, or some other crisis that is crippling
6) They will lend you a car when yours breaks down
7) They will check on your animals when you are out of town
8) They will cut your grass when you are not able
9) Celebrate with you life’s triumphs
10) Call and wish you Merry Christmas or visit you at that time
11) Will be supportive of you when a job is lost, will call and express their concern on a regular basis and just let you know that they care
12) Will not put their interests above yours to gain recognition, or to better their career
13) Will stand up for you whatever the cost for them
14) Will be there for you when your son or daughter is born if possible
15) Show up for any awards or special accomplishments that you might have
16) Will not give the kiss of Judas to someone behind closed doors while at the same time kissing up to them socially
Now most of us will fall short of the 16 suggestions listed above. However, if by chance we call ourselves a true friend and a Christian and we don't meet most of the criteria for friends described above , then we had better examine more closely what Christ would say about it.
To sum things up, Christ is the only true friend that I know of. In fact, he was such a friend that he gave up his life to be nailed to a cross and die such an excruciating death. Do you know anyone else who would do that for you?
I don't really believe we can be a true friend to someone and not have Christ in our hearts. Christ is love and I believe a true friend can only be that because of that love.
My prayer is, “God help me to be the friend you would have me to be. And if I fail, help me to have the guts to admit it and ask forgiveness from you as well as those that I have failed. Amen.”
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